A Perfect World

Everyone of us also hope can have a perfect life. But actually perfect is a vague. How does we define perfect in our real life?

Perfect in love, it is means that your life partner is a wealthy , handsome , good behavior and smart in study ?Or else your partner is your first lover, the most you love and the person who walk until the end with you ? All of it just as an example of love.

How if perfect in study life? Somebody will think that if you can get then dean list every semester is perfect. Someone will said if you can to be student representative in international event or competition , you will become famous in your university. But, one of my friend told me, join some club and society and become their organization committee and event director is the best. It can give you a lot of experience and real life try, you will not regret it after your graduation.

Then how you want to define a perfect person ? Not everyone come from a wealthy family, so who are come from a wealthy family is a perfect person. Or the person is strong in analyze everything around him/her and always can solve all the trouble happen around him/her ? Person who has a good personality which everyone also admire him/her , is a perfect person ?

Why all of us will hope to get a perfect world ?Actually the "perfect" is just a name who given to show something is nice. We are hard to find a perfect world in nowadays which it only will happen in the fairy tale.

Everything happen around us will not be the perfect things. Everyone move around us will not be a perfect person. Every where that we stand also will not be the perfect world. So, what is the point we always want to have "perfect" in our life ?

My friend told me, god already put the most beautiful things. If you can realize it and treasure it when they still around you, that will be most perfect in your life.

My new shoes

Fallacy of ad pupolum appeal to force is a easy way to use when we want to have something actually. It it using some treats of violence to achieve our goals. I already prove it. It is great.

Last few days, I admire a pair of shoes. But my mum not allowed I buy it since I have many shoes already. I felt unhappy and i loved it much. I lied to my mum. I told her, all of my shoes will "bite" my toe one. Then I showed her my bloody toe. I know her heart very soft. I told her I prefer to wear high heel. If you not allowed I buy it, I will ear my old shoes which "bite" my leg still blooding one. I try to force her to buy a new one for me. I know she do not want buy it to me is because do not I become a shopping queen. But since it is fact that all of my old shoes already spoil and the new shoes will make me get hurt.


She had no choice and finally bought it to me. Just like that, I had a new shoes easily. I wear it everyday when I go to my lecture class. It is my new "lover" in this moment.

BMG presentation

Today we had our management tutorial class. Most of us already presented but just left Nina group haven't present yet. Today is her turn to present the Cyberjaya University Collage of Medical science. She as the leader of the group and she will give a brief introduction of her group member.

Perhaps, at the beginning of their presentation, there was a small accident happening around. The projector that they borrow from CITS was unable to connect the laptop. They tried to apply other cable to connect the projector and the laptop. Luckily Madam Shanti has a good mood today and give them 5 minutes to repair it since the presentation already consider was started.
After a while, they succes to connect it and the laptop's dekstop surface was appear in front of us.


Actually Kuzumza was using a beautiful model as his dekstop background. All of us who sitting in the class ware get shock. On that time, Kuzumza apply an ad hominen fallacy - tu quoque to recover it.He try to hide his behevior as like to collect some beautiful model's photo. He told us, he dis not like to collect the beautiful model's photo, that are us like to collect it, that's why we assume he also like to do so. His face was red and looked like very serious. We know we have to give chance to let someone have their own secret and special behevior right ? So that we just ignore it and just keep quite.

He pretended like nothing happen and asked Nani to continuos the presentation. We know what happen actually but we just assume we were persuaded by him. Since we know if we ask him again, sure he will use another fallacy by what he learn from Madam Aznur to try to persuade us agian.. Am I right ?

What is love ???

Love, is a beautiful name. It is a very stranger things. It like a magic, can ake people drunk, also can make people die. It will bring us happiness, it also can bring us sadness and disappointed. It is unforgettable. It can be a beautiful memory , it also can be a lesson to learn in our life.

Love is a feeling. No matter who are you, no matter where you are, once you in love with someone, you will miss him or her much. This feeling will make two people's heart tie together. Two people even not stick together or in a relationship, but if they can feel they are living in each other heart will be more than enough. Because love is not own someone but it give someone freedom and make it happy. You can feel it if you are giving he/she your truth heart.

Love cannot be test. If you really in a relationship with your lover, you will try to test him/her in many way. But once you try to test it, sometimes you will get the unexpected answer. Girls are like to test their partner more than guys. But once the test is over he limitation, guys will feel guilty and hard to communicate. After a while he will feel cannot breathe and run away from the girl. But he wont know this is what the girl want to test his patient and behavior toward somethings happen. Both also cannot get a satisfy answer at the end.

Love will make someone emotional no matter who you are. Once you are in love, a rational person also will become emotionaly unless you are special or you not really very love him/her. But when the time pass, you know what are you doing is just affect by your emotion. As you can see the king in the Dynasty Ching, China. The king will pass his kingdom and everything to his brother when he feel want together with someone but the fact not allowed him to do so. Emotional tell you that you very love him/her but rational will tell you that the fact force you to leave him/her due to some unavoidable reason. A lot of people think that love is a fairy tale but the fact is very cuel. We must be rational much more better because love really cant assume as rice to eat. Know each other more first is better before you start a relationship with him/her because love someone not meaning that can walk togater untill the end.

Love is need understand each others needs. Once you start a relationship, you must try 2 fulfill what he/she wants in a rational way. Fulfill not meaning that give all he/she want but is sharing what you have to him/her. Love is no need feel hard and sacrify something to get his/her love. Love is a willing to give and feel happy when can be with him/her.

All of these statement are based on my assumption. Those assumptions are based on my own expereince and what happen around me these few years. This is an inductive arguement but based on satistic and probabilities. It's not valid but It can persuade others.

I think most of people who read my article also will have the same feeling with me,
Am I right ?

Mr. N tutorial class

Every Tuesday, we have a BCT tutorial class at 8pm. It is most class that make me feel uncomfortable because it started at 8am. (What a pity time ??) Every week, I hope Tuesday never come so soon you know. Our tutorial is Mr.N . He is a quite funny guy. He always give us a lot of "lame" joke and "lame" activities. But it still can consider professional and creative because we can much more easy to memorize the critical thinking syllabus.

Last two days, Mr N teach us about "mind-mapping". After he teach us based on theory, He guide us go to FCM ground floor and divided us into three groups. We had to choose a syllabus to do a mid-map in a paper. The enquirers of the mind-map are creative, attractive and innovative. I was in group no.2 and same group with pearlyn, Wei tzin and shu ting.

After a while, we already finish our mind-map and presented to all. When we already presented, that Mr.N asked 1 of member from each groups to hold the paper and stand in front of us. He want us to compare and see whose are the most suitable to use when we are doing our mind-map. All three groups' member support their own group and did not based on reality. The situation was uncontrollable since the crazy gang is there (hehe, Ms C and her gang)



After that, Mr N ask our group opinion and judge the winner. Since Madam Azhur teach us a lot of fallacy, such as ad hominen fallacy, ad populum fallacies and petitio principii fallacies, we must know how to apply it during our daily life , am I right ? I was using the "apple polish method" to band them, wakaka. I said, Since your group are so nice and your mind map is structurer, already good enought. But since ours is clearly than yours and much more attractive than you all, so I cant support your group and band my own creative group.

Wah, When their heard it, most of them stopped and flash back what fallacy that I was using. When I heard Ms C said that is ad populum appeal to vanity, I am sure she is a hardworking girl. Ad populum appeal to vanity is a kind or flattering words simply aren't relevant to the truth of an idea or validity of a position. It is also categorized as an Appeal to Emotion because it appeals how a person feels about herself than her ability to critically analyze a claim.

Even my argument was quite strong because I could persuaded most of them. But we still losed the game at the end. The winner was Crazy gang (Ms C and his gang). Many people around us are always using this apple polish method to communicate with us in our daily life. We must analyze carefully, then you will know who is trying to persuade you.

Lucky Tree ?!

Do you believe everything is this world is depends on luck ?
Will you feel that you can gain or loss something is because or luck ?

Luck, in Chinese we will called it as "ong" , based on Hokken traditional language.

During the Chinese New Year season, you can see most of the shopping center will hang red cloths around. Some of them will also sell some special and something that can bring luck to us. Red cloths or red colour's stuff can bring "ong" toward us if we hang it around our house.

Many people will buy or give somethings are look like special, such as :
1. Bamboo ( means business will increase much)
2. Red clothes ( bring "ong" around us )
3. Angpau ( lucky and wealthy)
4. Candy ( sweet and harmony throughout the whole year)
5. Kali graft "fu" which inverse to stick (inverse mean coming, "fu" mean happiness, so it mean happines is coming soon)

My mum bought a tree that tied by red ribbon at morning market few days before New Year. She put it in front of my windows because someone told her my cat will die after the new yearbecause of the bad luck from the windows. We need to put a tree to defend the bad muck come and take care our cat well.

What my mum doing was based her assumption. Because of someone told her my cat will die after new year by the bad luck and it is come from the windows, I have to put a tree in front of my windows and need to take care it ?

Assumption is a statement that one automatically accepts, without requiring any proof .

It’s a postulate (idea) that we already believe is true. It’s the underlying thought or feeling that we have about an idea. Based on my mum's assumption of the bad luck, I already suffer 2 months and at end of the story is totally different. The tree is life until now but the cat already after 2 days she brought the tree. The reason that it die was because if it already old and will die soon even someone can treat it or save it now.

Assumption ? Assuming ? I assume that you angry with me since you keep on said I always punch people ( but the fact is I never do so la) .

Assumptions are need a lot of evidence to prove it before we believe it. Next time when you want to do a decision , make sure you have evidence to support your idea.

Special Journey to Malaka

Time is running fast and without any scar. I still remember last time I had my foundation in management in Melaka. That just like a special journey a part of my life. I learn a lot of new things at there and I have chance to taste the village people style.

I am birth and living in KL and Ampang . I never go deeply to those "small town before" .I always stay at home and I am protective by my parents, like a fish in an aquarium. My parents not allow i going out alone or only with 2 or 3 friends. They also not allow I walk back from school or take bus to tuition even I already from 5. They not allow I has boyfriend and they will very sentitive when some of my male friend call me or sms with me. I feel no freedom at all and feel bore to my life yet I know my parents just worry about me due to so many abusive cases happen around KL.

But when I studied in melaka during my alpha year, I lived in MMU Hostel. It's totally different with the life which I having before. My room very small and no air-cond. It is look old and dirty. I need to wear shoes to go inside. In the night time, there is very cool and full of mosqito, sometimes have insert "jogging" in my room. Terrible and horrible for me to live at here. I only can go home in sem break because my mum not allow I going back by bus. I need to watch all of my clothes without washing machine. I need to walk and take bus if I want to go out to eat or shopping. This is what i never and ever experience before.

After 1 month, I already adapt it. I become more independence and I realize that my home is very nice. I started to join some co-curiclum and organised some event. I also study hard since i quite free at there. I stared to learn how to write a proposul of an event. I stared to learn how to adapt the enviroment which different with me life. I started to learn how to have a good communication skills and also public speaking skills.


I gain a lot on that year. I also loss a lot on that year. What I gain are the chances and experiences to learn how to organize an event and leardership skills. What I lost are the time to study well and time to be with my family. I even spent my sleeping time to meeting with my event partner. I felt what I gains are much more value than what I had been loss. It make me feel we have to treasure the time when being with our family because family are the one will support you untill then end when everyone already leaving you.

The experiences of to be a part of organizing committee of an event actually are can improve our prosedural knowledge. Based on our thinking process , it have four types of knowledge by thinking process. Those are declarative knowledge (based on factual information), prosedural knowledge(based on alnayze and stategics), semantics knowledge(basd on abstract knowledge) and episodic knowlegde(based on what had been done). Prosedural knowledge is usefull when we become a manger or event director, you have to know how to anlaze the current
situasion and what decision you suppose to make when face the globalization or other challanges. It's not a want for us but a need. We need to know adapt the new enviroment and how to solve the problem in our life to make us survive in this world which full of competition among the others.

I feel gald to know a lot of friend in there espcially those senior who teach me a lot. They always patient to teach me even I am hot template and always "fat lan za" (means angry) to them. I appreciate what they had been giving me. Multimedia University (melaka campus) make me feel like a home and they all are my family.


Now I return back to the origin already, become the Jess before study in MMU due to my family issue (since my mum not allow I join and active in club). But I believe what I had been gain in Melaka already enought for me as a beautiful memories to falsh back when I become older.

I tell myself ,
If I have chance and I able ,
I will go back to Melaka to visit all of them and Melaka campus,
because here is my home , forever home.

There is the place who make me grow up,
and full of my blood and tears.

Miss you all much