Different between girl and boy

I am one of the on air DJ of radio MMU. I am taking Cantonese slot since I am using Cantonese in my house, i feel that cantonese will much more comfortable for me. I felt very happy cause this is my first time to be DJ what ? But what make me feel scared is I have to talk about ghost storyin the mid night time. So for those like ghost story , please stay turn on radio MMU every tuesday , 1am , you can heard my voice and of course with my partners also. My DJ nickname is DJ mun mun..

After on air section , i am going to have super with my on air partners , mun fung , lekkee , kei fung and jia hao. We are chatting and discuss about content of the next on air section. After finish the discussion , we started to have our supper. After a few minute , we saw a girl sit with 5 guys and she wear a super duper short pant. In this situation, she attract all the guys look at her. Since my friends also guys , but he give a lot of complaint to those guys and that girl. But I can believe if no demand(itchy guys) , she wont supply one(wearing short). Because of my this sensitive statement , they start to have a debate section with me.

The topic is different between girl and boy in love. Girl in much more mature than guy but when in love, she will become emotional. Guy is more childish but they will become rational when in love. In a relationship, both need to understand and know each other bad behavior and also accept it. Guy's mind concept is a relationship is enjoyable and they will not really care is it can until the end. Girl's mind concept is once together, they hope both can walk till the end and forever. These are because guy is scare cant get the girl rather than lost the girl after together. Girl is no worry about can have a boyfriend or not but once together, they will very treasure it can scare it will lost.

Most of the guys are selfish. They stress in sex rather than love. They will very mind their girlfriend is it a virgin. But they wont mind themselves is it loyal to their girl friend. They will jealous when their girl friend look at some handsome guys but they always look at those pretty girl. When I make this kind of statement, they keep on band me and give a lot of reason. They tell me, guys will look at the others girl because those are common sense and nature in life. Common sense guys will interest to those beautiful things and beautiful girl. Those girls are pretty so they will look on her. This argument really unreasonable.

This is a circular argument . One kind of fallacy from petitio principii class.

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•because the conclusion essentially appears both at the beginning and the end of the argument, it creates an endless circle. This kind of argument assumes premises of a statement has the same meaning as the conclusion.

•It can be represented by the form: S is true, because B is true. And B is true because G is true. And G is true because S is true. They keep on bring me "walk around the garden" and give a lot of reason. Actually they just want to avoid the responsibility and want to act like very gentlemen.

Since I feel they already start to show me unhappy face , so I change the topic to the food in old town. Hehe..

violence againt pet

My old house is a house that living by three uncles and their family. They have a dog, it called xiu wong, means a little yellow because the dog’s skin is coffee yellow colour.

Today afternoon, I accompany my mother and my brother went to old house to visit my uncles and aunties. Normally when the older people chatting , we as a little “kids” wont mix around with them because our chatting topic not really same. So when my mum chatting with them, I went to my cousin room to online with my brother.

After a few minute, my brother was disappear. I felt very strange and I realize he was in the front door. I went there to look for him. I saw he was taking an umbrella and disturbing the dog. I tried to stop him but I was late.



He was bite by the xiu wong and scream laughter. He run back to living room and complaint to my mum regarding aunty did not tie the dog well and it come to bite him. I felt OMG(oh my god) , how come he can reverse all the sentences ? He was trying to hide his fault. He keep on told my mum about he was paint and want to go back . My mum very sympathy to him. My mum did not found out that was whose wrong , yet ask me went back together.

My bother was using my mum's sympathy to hide his fault. This is what we called Fallacy : ad populum appeal to pity. It means that the arguer tries to get people to agree with their conclusion by evoking pity and sympathy either with their situation or with the situation of some third party. He keep on said he was pain and need to go home rest. He make my mum feel guilty to bring him came here and let him bitted by xiu wong.

This is a very good tactics to apply in our life. I want to learn it and apply it later.

Hee~~

Play phyichology with my little cousin

Children are very fantastic one but scare to get hurt. If you do not have a special skills or somethings that can attract him, is hard for them to communicate with you. But I have a secret way to communicate with them. That's the brain-writing which I learn in my BCT tutorial.

My cousin called Hin Hin, 4 years old, male. He look very cool when he have no mood , chinese what we call " boh eng " . But I am the one if you do nothing or just sitting in front of me, i will frustrated and feel bore. After 30 minits when he started sitting in front of me, i already feel want cry because he just keep look at me and said nothing. Open the mouth only saw the hole.

Whatever I asked him, he just act cool and did not answer me cause he was boh eng on that time. I felt frustrated and felt want asked him get out from my room. After a moment , I recalled back what I had been learn from my tutorial last week : advanced approach to attracting people who cannot generate idea in a brainstorming section, brainwritting. I felt it may be work cause they are the same cases now. At least I can know why he was boh eng today.

I took out 3 paper and ask him draw 30 cartoon on the table when I count 1 to 100. But of cause I will try to slow down my counting speed. After 5 mins, he really draw a lot. The paper have tiger, dog, cat, apple, orange, durian, pencil, table, chair, car, umbrella, school bag and etc.

He felt more comfortable after that brain-writting section.(Actually I already change it to "brain-drawing" , haha) He started to talk with me. He told me he lost his watch at school just now but not dare to tell mt aunty because that is not the first time he lost his stuff at school.

I encourage him to them my aunty the truth. Children must be honest and do not lye. I explain to him that my aunty, his mum wont kill him by the way. She just will scold him a while and buy a new one for him. I am sure all the parents are very treasure their children. When their children are lying to them , their heart will feel super duper sad.

Honest and loyalty are play the main role in our life. These are the jewelry that cannot measure by money. I hope all of us can to be a good child in our family, a good son or daughter to our parents, a good person in this organization.

Coffee Green Colour hair

Haiz, I felt super duber sad now.
Because today I went to salon to cut a new hair style that I felt not satisfy at all.

Actually is my faults or the girl who cut me hair's faults ? I just tell her I want to change a new look. Then she give me two choices, first is remain the same and just cut the shape, otherwise is change to others style. She was using the fallacy of ad populum fallacy to false dilemma. She tried to make me fear to make a false decision. Since I felt bore to my old hair style and felt want to try a new look. So, I asked her carry on what she want to cut. Because I know if the hair style look not nice, I can tie it what .

After few minute, she cut a mt front hair to be like "child hair" , then my side hair to be like "stage" and back side become "air line" shape. I felt very unexpected and felt guilty. How come will like that one? But already late, my hair already cut by her. She ask me want dye red purple colour near the side hair or not ? Of course I will reject since red colour still very obvious for me.


When I reach my house, all of them said this look very cute. OMG (on my god) , why all will said look cute ? Is it look very childish ? My mature look gone already. My smart look disappear already. I felt unconfortable with this hair style, so that I asked my mum bring me go and dye my hairsince she also want to go to dye her hair in her friend's salun soon.

That aunty said I can try brown colour. But I prefer some colour that is special but did not obvious at all. Finally I choose light coffee colour. But what my mum told me my hair look very black and hard to have that colour. She asked that aunty add some green clour in coffee colour. I felt : OMG !!! Due to I not really want to so "special" , so I required half colour and more "in".

At the end , that aunty help me apply "coffee green" colour in my back hair and "light coffee" in my side and front hair. When I saw it after it already dry, I felt scared. (If you want to know why I felt scared, you may please come to see my hair). That aunty told me the green colour will reduce soon and become coffee colour later. It will take 1 week time to let it's colour come out.


I already speechless. I has nothing to say. I feel want go home soon and sleep. I feel I will tie my hair in this week. I feel that I want hide in my room until this weekend. I feel tire. I feel.......

Italian Cruise

Last night I had prepared a set dinner for my housemates, Sophia, ah fu and ah Ken .

The tittle of my dinner is Italian Cruise.
Detail as below :

Appetizer : Risotto with Tomato
Main course : Spaghetti alla Puttanesca
Dessert : Tropical fruit

After my class around 7pm , i was stared to prepeare the raw materials of my dinner. Raw materials that I prepared were tomato , garlic , union , cheese , HL milk , eggs , red pepper , beef , pasta and etc.

My housemates show a smile face when I put all of my dishes in the table. I am not sure they satisfy or opposite meaning but they said still can improve since i am the first time to cook spaghetti at home.

wakaka...

Based on they response , that's a vagueness in their comment. Due to what i was learn in my BCT lecture , they said "still can improve " have two meaning. First is the food taste not bad but if i much more hardworking to learn how to cook sure can cook more tasty. But another meaning is the food like a suck , but since I was not always cook at home , they just give me face to eat and do not hurt my "crystal heart" .

Is ok la because I know they just do not know how to give a best comment which can make me satisfy but tell me the truth. So they give me a "Vague" answer to avoid I will angry to them..

Hohoho~~~