A Perfect World

Everyone of us also hope can have a perfect life. But actually perfect is a vague. How does we define perfect in our real life?

Perfect in love, it is means that your life partner is a wealthy , handsome , good behavior and smart in study ?Or else your partner is your first lover, the most you love and the person who walk until the end with you ? All of it just as an example of love.

How if perfect in study life? Somebody will think that if you can get then dean list every semester is perfect. Someone will said if you can to be student representative in international event or competition , you will become famous in your university. But, one of my friend told me, join some club and society and become their organization committee and event director is the best. It can give you a lot of experience and real life try, you will not regret it after your graduation.

Then how you want to define a perfect person ? Not everyone come from a wealthy family, so who are come from a wealthy family is a perfect person. Or the person is strong in analyze everything around him/her and always can solve all the trouble happen around him/her ? Person who has a good personality which everyone also admire him/her , is a perfect person ?

Why all of us will hope to get a perfect world ?Actually the "perfect" is just a name who given to show something is nice. We are hard to find a perfect world in nowadays which it only will happen in the fairy tale.

Everything happen around us will not be the perfect things. Everyone move around us will not be a perfect person. Every where that we stand also will not be the perfect world. So, what is the point we always want to have "perfect" in our life ?

My friend told me, god already put the most beautiful things. If you can realize it and treasure it when they still around you, that will be most perfect in your life.

My new shoes

Fallacy of ad pupolum appeal to force is a easy way to use when we want to have something actually. It it using some treats of violence to achieve our goals. I already prove it. It is great.

Last few days, I admire a pair of shoes. But my mum not allowed I buy it since I have many shoes already. I felt unhappy and i loved it much. I lied to my mum. I told her, all of my shoes will "bite" my toe one. Then I showed her my bloody toe. I know her heart very soft. I told her I prefer to wear high heel. If you not allowed I buy it, I will ear my old shoes which "bite" my leg still blooding one. I try to force her to buy a new one for me. I know she do not want buy it to me is because do not I become a shopping queen. But since it is fact that all of my old shoes already spoil and the new shoes will make me get hurt.


She had no choice and finally bought it to me. Just like that, I had a new shoes easily. I wear it everyday when I go to my lecture class. It is my new "lover" in this moment.

BMG presentation

Today we had our management tutorial class. Most of us already presented but just left Nina group haven't present yet. Today is her turn to present the Cyberjaya University Collage of Medical science. She as the leader of the group and she will give a brief introduction of her group member.

Perhaps, at the beginning of their presentation, there was a small accident happening around. The projector that they borrow from CITS was unable to connect the laptop. They tried to apply other cable to connect the projector and the laptop. Luckily Madam Shanti has a good mood today and give them 5 minutes to repair it since the presentation already consider was started.
After a while, they succes to connect it and the laptop's dekstop surface was appear in front of us.


Actually Kuzumza was using a beautiful model as his dekstop background. All of us who sitting in the class ware get shock. On that time, Kuzumza apply an ad hominen fallacy - tu quoque to recover it.He try to hide his behevior as like to collect some beautiful model's photo. He told us, he dis not like to collect the beautiful model's photo, that are us like to collect it, that's why we assume he also like to do so. His face was red and looked like very serious. We know we have to give chance to let someone have their own secret and special behevior right ? So that we just ignore it and just keep quite.

He pretended like nothing happen and asked Nani to continuos the presentation. We know what happen actually but we just assume we were persuaded by him. Since we know if we ask him again, sure he will use another fallacy by what he learn from Madam Aznur to try to persuade us agian.. Am I right ?

What is love ???

Love, is a beautiful name. It is a very stranger things. It like a magic, can ake people drunk, also can make people die. It will bring us happiness, it also can bring us sadness and disappointed. It is unforgettable. It can be a beautiful memory , it also can be a lesson to learn in our life.

Love is a feeling. No matter who are you, no matter where you are, once you in love with someone, you will miss him or her much. This feeling will make two people's heart tie together. Two people even not stick together or in a relationship, but if they can feel they are living in each other heart will be more than enough. Because love is not own someone but it give someone freedom and make it happy. You can feel it if you are giving he/she your truth heart.

Love cannot be test. If you really in a relationship with your lover, you will try to test him/her in many way. But once you try to test it, sometimes you will get the unexpected answer. Girls are like to test their partner more than guys. But once the test is over he limitation, guys will feel guilty and hard to communicate. After a while he will feel cannot breathe and run away from the girl. But he wont know this is what the girl want to test his patient and behavior toward somethings happen. Both also cannot get a satisfy answer at the end.

Love will make someone emotional no matter who you are. Once you are in love, a rational person also will become emotionaly unless you are special or you not really very love him/her. But when the time pass, you know what are you doing is just affect by your emotion. As you can see the king in the Dynasty Ching, China. The king will pass his kingdom and everything to his brother when he feel want together with someone but the fact not allowed him to do so. Emotional tell you that you very love him/her but rational will tell you that the fact force you to leave him/her due to some unavoidable reason. A lot of people think that love is a fairy tale but the fact is very cuel. We must be rational much more better because love really cant assume as rice to eat. Know each other more first is better before you start a relationship with him/her because love someone not meaning that can walk togater untill the end.

Love is need understand each others needs. Once you start a relationship, you must try 2 fulfill what he/she wants in a rational way. Fulfill not meaning that give all he/she want but is sharing what you have to him/her. Love is no need feel hard and sacrify something to get his/her love. Love is a willing to give and feel happy when can be with him/her.

All of these statement are based on my assumption. Those assumptions are based on my own expereince and what happen around me these few years. This is an inductive arguement but based on satistic and probabilities. It's not valid but It can persuade others.

I think most of people who read my article also will have the same feeling with me,
Am I right ?

Mr. N tutorial class

Every Tuesday, we have a BCT tutorial class at 8pm. It is most class that make me feel uncomfortable because it started at 8am. (What a pity time ??) Every week, I hope Tuesday never come so soon you know. Our tutorial is Mr.N . He is a quite funny guy. He always give us a lot of "lame" joke and "lame" activities. But it still can consider professional and creative because we can much more easy to memorize the critical thinking syllabus.

Last two days, Mr N teach us about "mind-mapping". After he teach us based on theory, He guide us go to FCM ground floor and divided us into three groups. We had to choose a syllabus to do a mid-map in a paper. The enquirers of the mind-map are creative, attractive and innovative. I was in group no.2 and same group with pearlyn, Wei tzin and shu ting.

After a while, we already finish our mind-map and presented to all. When we already presented, that Mr.N asked 1 of member from each groups to hold the paper and stand in front of us. He want us to compare and see whose are the most suitable to use when we are doing our mind-map. All three groups' member support their own group and did not based on reality. The situation was uncontrollable since the crazy gang is there (hehe, Ms C and her gang)



After that, Mr N ask our group opinion and judge the winner. Since Madam Azhur teach us a lot of fallacy, such as ad hominen fallacy, ad populum fallacies and petitio principii fallacies, we must know how to apply it during our daily life , am I right ? I was using the "apple polish method" to band them, wakaka. I said, Since your group are so nice and your mind map is structurer, already good enought. But since ours is clearly than yours and much more attractive than you all, so I cant support your group and band my own creative group.

Wah, When their heard it, most of them stopped and flash back what fallacy that I was using. When I heard Ms C said that is ad populum appeal to vanity, I am sure she is a hardworking girl. Ad populum appeal to vanity is a kind or flattering words simply aren't relevant to the truth of an idea or validity of a position. It is also categorized as an Appeal to Emotion because it appeals how a person feels about herself than her ability to critically analyze a claim.

Even my argument was quite strong because I could persuaded most of them. But we still losed the game at the end. The winner was Crazy gang (Ms C and his gang). Many people around us are always using this apple polish method to communicate with us in our daily life. We must analyze carefully, then you will know who is trying to persuade you.

Lucky Tree ?!

Do you believe everything is this world is depends on luck ?
Will you feel that you can gain or loss something is because or luck ?

Luck, in Chinese we will called it as "ong" , based on Hokken traditional language.

During the Chinese New Year season, you can see most of the shopping center will hang red cloths around. Some of them will also sell some special and something that can bring luck to us. Red cloths or red colour's stuff can bring "ong" toward us if we hang it around our house.

Many people will buy or give somethings are look like special, such as :
1. Bamboo ( means business will increase much)
2. Red clothes ( bring "ong" around us )
3. Angpau ( lucky and wealthy)
4. Candy ( sweet and harmony throughout the whole year)
5. Kali graft "fu" which inverse to stick (inverse mean coming, "fu" mean happiness, so it mean happines is coming soon)

My mum bought a tree that tied by red ribbon at morning market few days before New Year. She put it in front of my windows because someone told her my cat will die after the new yearbecause of the bad luck from the windows. We need to put a tree to defend the bad muck come and take care our cat well.

What my mum doing was based her assumption. Because of someone told her my cat will die after new year by the bad luck and it is come from the windows, I have to put a tree in front of my windows and need to take care it ?

Assumption is a statement that one automatically accepts, without requiring any proof .

It’s a postulate (idea) that we already believe is true. It’s the underlying thought or feeling that we have about an idea. Based on my mum's assumption of the bad luck, I already suffer 2 months and at end of the story is totally different. The tree is life until now but the cat already after 2 days she brought the tree. The reason that it die was because if it already old and will die soon even someone can treat it or save it now.

Assumption ? Assuming ? I assume that you angry with me since you keep on said I always punch people ( but the fact is I never do so la) .

Assumptions are need a lot of evidence to prove it before we believe it. Next time when you want to do a decision , make sure you have evidence to support your idea.

Special Journey to Malaka

Time is running fast and without any scar. I still remember last time I had my foundation in management in Melaka. That just like a special journey a part of my life. I learn a lot of new things at there and I have chance to taste the village people style.

I am birth and living in KL and Ampang . I never go deeply to those "small town before" .I always stay at home and I am protective by my parents, like a fish in an aquarium. My parents not allow i going out alone or only with 2 or 3 friends. They also not allow I walk back from school or take bus to tuition even I already from 5. They not allow I has boyfriend and they will very sentitive when some of my male friend call me or sms with me. I feel no freedom at all and feel bore to my life yet I know my parents just worry about me due to so many abusive cases happen around KL.

But when I studied in melaka during my alpha year, I lived in MMU Hostel. It's totally different with the life which I having before. My room very small and no air-cond. It is look old and dirty. I need to wear shoes to go inside. In the night time, there is very cool and full of mosqito, sometimes have insert "jogging" in my room. Terrible and horrible for me to live at here. I only can go home in sem break because my mum not allow I going back by bus. I need to watch all of my clothes without washing machine. I need to walk and take bus if I want to go out to eat or shopping. This is what i never and ever experience before.

After 1 month, I already adapt it. I become more independence and I realize that my home is very nice. I started to join some co-curiclum and organised some event. I also study hard since i quite free at there. I stared to learn how to write a proposul of an event. I stared to learn how to adapt the enviroment which different with me life. I started to learn how to have a good communication skills and also public speaking skills.


I gain a lot on that year. I also loss a lot on that year. What I gain are the chances and experiences to learn how to organize an event and leardership skills. What I lost are the time to study well and time to be with my family. I even spent my sleeping time to meeting with my event partner. I felt what I gains are much more value than what I had been loss. It make me feel we have to treasure the time when being with our family because family are the one will support you untill then end when everyone already leaving you.

The experiences of to be a part of organizing committee of an event actually are can improve our prosedural knowledge. Based on our thinking process , it have four types of knowledge by thinking process. Those are declarative knowledge (based on factual information), prosedural knowledge(based on alnayze and stategics), semantics knowledge(basd on abstract knowledge) and episodic knowlegde(based on what had been done). Prosedural knowledge is usefull when we become a manger or event director, you have to know how to anlaze the current
situasion and what decision you suppose to make when face the globalization or other challanges. It's not a want for us but a need. We need to know adapt the new enviroment and how to solve the problem in our life to make us survive in this world which full of competition among the others.

I feel gald to know a lot of friend in there espcially those senior who teach me a lot. They always patient to teach me even I am hot template and always "fat lan za" (means angry) to them. I appreciate what they had been giving me. Multimedia University (melaka campus) make me feel like a home and they all are my family.


Now I return back to the origin already, become the Jess before study in MMU due to my family issue (since my mum not allow I join and active in club). But I believe what I had been gain in Melaka already enought for me as a beautiful memories to falsh back when I become older.

I tell myself ,
If I have chance and I able ,
I will go back to Melaka to visit all of them and Melaka campus,
because here is my home , forever home.

There is the place who make me grow up,
and full of my blood and tears.

Miss you all much

Blow sugars Skills

Blow sugar, is a traditional skills from China. Blow sugar is blow of "maltose which already cook", it is quite stick and yellow colour . It is a powder form maltose and need to add in hot water and boil it till become transperent and yellow colour. Normally it is use to eat like sweet. The people who blow the sugar we called it as Sifu.

I went to Leisure mall shopping, Cheras shopping with my mum just now. I saw a group of people stand near the stage there. I felt very strange and went to there and see what happen. A sifu call Master Liew was presenting how to blow the sugar. Sifu use the already made maltose and heat it until 40c and keep it warm. He take out the maltose and blow the maltose when he was shaping the maltose to be some cuty animals.


One maltose animal is sell RM10 and for those buy more than RM100 above in a single resit can have it for free. I felt very excited becuse it's look very cute and I had a resit by Vior is around RM 102.57. I walked infront on him and show him my resit. I told him I want a horse. He just smile and started to make a maltose horse to me. I know why he smile cause I was the oldest who requires the maltose. He asked me gave him my hand to touch the maltose in the pot. Wah , it is super duper hot. I cant believe how he can do it ? May be he had been go shaolin to learn some kungfu which can protech hand in a hot temperature , who knows ??

After 3 minits, he already finished and give me then horse. It was looked nice and like realy one. I said thank you to him. He told me last time he had been interview by Astro pheonix channel and some china local channel. He actually quite famous in China and he just come to Malaysia to have Chinise tradision exhibition around Kuala Lumpur area. He will stay in Malsysia only few days then will move to east Malaysia already. I felt lucky and happy to meet him and I can have this nice maltose horses.

When I reach home, my brother asked me about how to get this maltose horse. I told him the truth and he asked me give him that horse. Of course I wont give him la cause that is mine!! He was a bad and evil children. He said that I already 19 years old still want had maltose horse, I thought myself still like a child and did not mature at all. He made me very shame but I felt that I do not want to give him. Yet I saw his evil face, felt want go and punch him. I straight away threw it to dusbin and pour some hot water. The maltose horse was melt and spoil. My brother shock already when saw this situation. He just stare on the dusbin and I can feel he want cry soon.

I told him I want study and I went into my room. Before I close my room's door, I saw him still try 2 repair that horse and i felt pity to him. But if he talk nicely to me without any forcing , I will give it to him. This is his attitude problem and not my fault. My brother try to use ad populum fallacy : appeal to shame to make me feel shame and give him the maltose horse. He try to create a lot of embarrassement to me and tried to make me feel unconfortable. I wont jump into his idea and I use another ways to make him regret. Hehehe..

This lesson teach him next time try to be honest and do not use and fallacy to make others feel unconfortable. What for we want twist our point by using fallacy and do not tell someone directly ?

Different between girl and boy

I am one of the on air DJ of radio MMU. I am taking Cantonese slot since I am using Cantonese in my house, i feel that cantonese will much more comfortable for me. I felt very happy cause this is my first time to be DJ what ? But what make me feel scared is I have to talk about ghost storyin the mid night time. So for those like ghost story , please stay turn on radio MMU every tuesday , 1am , you can heard my voice and of course with my partners also. My DJ nickname is DJ mun mun..

After on air section , i am going to have super with my on air partners , mun fung , lekkee , kei fung and jia hao. We are chatting and discuss about content of the next on air section. After finish the discussion , we started to have our supper. After a few minute , we saw a girl sit with 5 guys and she wear a super duper short pant. In this situation, she attract all the guys look at her. Since my friends also guys , but he give a lot of complaint to those guys and that girl. But I can believe if no demand(itchy guys) , she wont supply one(wearing short). Because of my this sensitive statement , they start to have a debate section with me.

The topic is different between girl and boy in love. Girl in much more mature than guy but when in love, she will become emotional. Guy is more childish but they will become rational when in love. In a relationship, both need to understand and know each other bad behavior and also accept it. Guy's mind concept is a relationship is enjoyable and they will not really care is it can until the end. Girl's mind concept is once together, they hope both can walk till the end and forever. These are because guy is scare cant get the girl rather than lost the girl after together. Girl is no worry about can have a boyfriend or not but once together, they will very treasure it can scare it will lost.

Most of the guys are selfish. They stress in sex rather than love. They will very mind their girlfriend is it a virgin. But they wont mind themselves is it loyal to their girl friend. They will jealous when their girl friend look at some handsome guys but they always look at those pretty girl. When I make this kind of statement, they keep on band me and give a lot of reason. They tell me, guys will look at the others girl because those are common sense and nature in life. Common sense guys will interest to those beautiful things and beautiful girl. Those girls are pretty so they will look on her. This argument really unreasonable.

This is a circular argument . One kind of fallacy from petitio principii class.

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•because the conclusion essentially appears both at the beginning and the end of the argument, it creates an endless circle. This kind of argument assumes premises of a statement has the same meaning as the conclusion.

•It can be represented by the form: S is true, because B is true. And B is true because G is true. And G is true because S is true. They keep on bring me "walk around the garden" and give a lot of reason. Actually they just want to avoid the responsibility and want to act like very gentlemen.

Since I feel they already start to show me unhappy face , so I change the topic to the food in old town. Hehe..

violence againt pet

My old house is a house that living by three uncles and their family. They have a dog, it called xiu wong, means a little yellow because the dog’s skin is coffee yellow colour.

Today afternoon, I accompany my mother and my brother went to old house to visit my uncles and aunties. Normally when the older people chatting , we as a little “kids” wont mix around with them because our chatting topic not really same. So when my mum chatting with them, I went to my cousin room to online with my brother.

After a few minute, my brother was disappear. I felt very strange and I realize he was in the front door. I went there to look for him. I saw he was taking an umbrella and disturbing the dog. I tried to stop him but I was late.



He was bite by the xiu wong and scream laughter. He run back to living room and complaint to my mum regarding aunty did not tie the dog well and it come to bite him. I felt OMG(oh my god) , how come he can reverse all the sentences ? He was trying to hide his fault. He keep on told my mum about he was paint and want to go back . My mum very sympathy to him. My mum did not found out that was whose wrong , yet ask me went back together.

My bother was using my mum's sympathy to hide his fault. This is what we called Fallacy : ad populum appeal to pity. It means that the arguer tries to get people to agree with their conclusion by evoking pity and sympathy either with their situation or with the situation of some third party. He keep on said he was pain and need to go home rest. He make my mum feel guilty to bring him came here and let him bitted by xiu wong.

This is a very good tactics to apply in our life. I want to learn it and apply it later.

Hee~~

Play phyichology with my little cousin

Children are very fantastic one but scare to get hurt. If you do not have a special skills or somethings that can attract him, is hard for them to communicate with you. But I have a secret way to communicate with them. That's the brain-writing which I learn in my BCT tutorial.

My cousin called Hin Hin, 4 years old, male. He look very cool when he have no mood , chinese what we call " boh eng " . But I am the one if you do nothing or just sitting in front of me, i will frustrated and feel bore. After 30 minits when he started sitting in front of me, i already feel want cry because he just keep look at me and said nothing. Open the mouth only saw the hole.

Whatever I asked him, he just act cool and did not answer me cause he was boh eng on that time. I felt frustrated and felt want asked him get out from my room. After a moment , I recalled back what I had been learn from my tutorial last week : advanced approach to attracting people who cannot generate idea in a brainstorming section, brainwritting. I felt it may be work cause they are the same cases now. At least I can know why he was boh eng today.

I took out 3 paper and ask him draw 30 cartoon on the table when I count 1 to 100. But of cause I will try to slow down my counting speed. After 5 mins, he really draw a lot. The paper have tiger, dog, cat, apple, orange, durian, pencil, table, chair, car, umbrella, school bag and etc.

He felt more comfortable after that brain-writting section.(Actually I already change it to "brain-drawing" , haha) He started to talk with me. He told me he lost his watch at school just now but not dare to tell mt aunty because that is not the first time he lost his stuff at school.

I encourage him to them my aunty the truth. Children must be honest and do not lye. I explain to him that my aunty, his mum wont kill him by the way. She just will scold him a while and buy a new one for him. I am sure all the parents are very treasure their children. When their children are lying to them , their heart will feel super duper sad.

Honest and loyalty are play the main role in our life. These are the jewelry that cannot measure by money. I hope all of us can to be a good child in our family, a good son or daughter to our parents, a good person in this organization.

Coffee Green Colour hair

Haiz, I felt super duber sad now.
Because today I went to salon to cut a new hair style that I felt not satisfy at all.

Actually is my faults or the girl who cut me hair's faults ? I just tell her I want to change a new look. Then she give me two choices, first is remain the same and just cut the shape, otherwise is change to others style. She was using the fallacy of ad populum fallacy to false dilemma. She tried to make me fear to make a false decision. Since I felt bore to my old hair style and felt want to try a new look. So, I asked her carry on what she want to cut. Because I know if the hair style look not nice, I can tie it what .

After few minute, she cut a mt front hair to be like "child hair" , then my side hair to be like "stage" and back side become "air line" shape. I felt very unexpected and felt guilty. How come will like that one? But already late, my hair already cut by her. She ask me want dye red purple colour near the side hair or not ? Of course I will reject since red colour still very obvious for me.


When I reach my house, all of them said this look very cute. OMG (on my god) , why all will said look cute ? Is it look very childish ? My mature look gone already. My smart look disappear already. I felt unconfortable with this hair style, so that I asked my mum bring me go and dye my hairsince she also want to go to dye her hair in her friend's salun soon.

That aunty said I can try brown colour. But I prefer some colour that is special but did not obvious at all. Finally I choose light coffee colour. But what my mum told me my hair look very black and hard to have that colour. She asked that aunty add some green clour in coffee colour. I felt : OMG !!! Due to I not really want to so "special" , so I required half colour and more "in".

At the end , that aunty help me apply "coffee green" colour in my back hair and "light coffee" in my side and front hair. When I saw it after it already dry, I felt scared. (If you want to know why I felt scared, you may please come to see my hair). That aunty told me the green colour will reduce soon and become coffee colour later. It will take 1 week time to let it's colour come out.


I already speechless. I has nothing to say. I feel want go home soon and sleep. I feel I will tie my hair in this week. I feel that I want hide in my room until this weekend. I feel tire. I feel.......

Italian Cruise

Last night I had prepared a set dinner for my housemates, Sophia, ah fu and ah Ken .

The tittle of my dinner is Italian Cruise.
Detail as below :

Appetizer : Risotto with Tomato
Main course : Spaghetti alla Puttanesca
Dessert : Tropical fruit

After my class around 7pm , i was stared to prepeare the raw materials of my dinner. Raw materials that I prepared were tomato , garlic , union , cheese , HL milk , eggs , red pepper , beef , pasta and etc.

My housemates show a smile face when I put all of my dishes in the table. I am not sure they satisfy or opposite meaning but they said still can improve since i am the first time to cook spaghetti at home.

wakaka...

Based on they response , that's a vagueness in their comment. Due to what i was learn in my BCT lecture , they said "still can improve " have two meaning. First is the food taste not bad but if i much more hardworking to learn how to cook sure can cook more tasty. But another meaning is the food like a suck , but since I was not always cook at home , they just give me face to eat and do not hurt my "crystal heart" .

Is ok la because I know they just do not know how to give a best comment which can make me satisfy but tell me the truth. So they give me a "Vague" answer to avoid I will angry to them..

Hohoho~~~