Wednesday, September 3, 2008

What is love ???



Love, is a beautiful name. It is a very stranger things. It like a magic, can ake people drunk, also can make people die. It will bring us happiness, it also can bring us sadness and disappointed. It is unforgettable. It can be a beautiful memory , it also can be a lesson to learn in our life.

Love is a feeling. No matter who are you, no matter where you are, once you in love with someone, you will miss him or her much. This feeling will make two people's heart tie together. Two people even not stick together or in a relationship, but if they can feel they are living in each other heart will be more than enough. Because love is not own someone but it give someone freedom and make it happy. You can feel it if you are giving he/she your truth heart.

Love cannot be test. If you really in a relationship with your lover, you will try to test him/her in many way. But once you try to test it, sometimes you will get the unexpected answer. Girls are like to test their partner more than guys. But once the test is over he limitation, guys will feel guilty and hard to communicate. After a while he will feel cannot breathe and run away from the girl. But he wont know this is what the girl want to test his patient and behavior toward somethings happen. Both also cannot get a satisfy answer at the end.

Love will make someone emotional no matter who you are. Once you are in love, a rational person also will become emotionaly unless you are special or you not really very love him/her. But when the time pass, you know what are you doing is just affect by your emotion. As you can see the king in the Dynasty Ching, China. The king will pass his kingdom and everything to his brother when he feel want together with someone but the fact not allowed him to do so. Emotional tell you that you very love him/her but rational will tell you that the fact force you to leave him/her due to some unavoidable reason. A lot of people think that love is a fairy tale but the fact is very cuel. We must be rational much more better because love really cant assume as rice to eat. Know each other more first is better before you start a relationship with him/her because love someone not meaning that can walk togater untill the end.

Love is need understand each others needs. Once you start a relationship, you must try 2 fulfill what he/she wants in a rational way. Fulfill not meaning that give all he/she want but is sharing what you have to him/her. Love is no need feel hard and sacrify something to get his/her love. Love is a willing to give and feel happy when can be with him/her.

All of these statement are based on my assumption. Those assumptions are based on my own expereince and what happen around me these few years. This is an inductive arguement but based on satistic and probabilities. It's not valid but It can persuade others.

I think most of people who read my article also will have the same feeling with me,
Am I right ?

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