Play phyichology with my little cousin

Children are very fantastic one but scare to get hurt. If you do not have a special skills or somethings that can attract him, is hard for them to communicate with you. But I have a secret way to communicate with them. That's the brain-writing which I learn in my BCT tutorial.

My cousin called Hin Hin, 4 years old, male. He look very cool when he have no mood , chinese what we call " boh eng " . But I am the one if you do nothing or just sitting in front of me, i will frustrated and feel bore. After 30 minits when he started sitting in front of me, i already feel want cry because he just keep look at me and said nothing. Open the mouth only saw the hole.

Whatever I asked him, he just act cool and did not answer me cause he was boh eng on that time. I felt frustrated and felt want asked him get out from my room. After a moment , I recalled back what I had been learn from my tutorial last week : advanced approach to attracting people who cannot generate idea in a brainstorming section, brainwritting. I felt it may be work cause they are the same cases now. At least I can know why he was boh eng today.

I took out 3 paper and ask him draw 30 cartoon on the table when I count 1 to 100. But of cause I will try to slow down my counting speed. After 5 mins, he really draw a lot. The paper have tiger, dog, cat, apple, orange, durian, pencil, table, chair, car, umbrella, school bag and etc.

He felt more comfortable after that brain-writting section.(Actually I already change it to "brain-drawing" , haha) He started to talk with me. He told me he lost his watch at school just now but not dare to tell mt aunty because that is not the first time he lost his stuff at school.

I encourage him to them my aunty the truth. Children must be honest and do not lye. I explain to him that my aunty, his mum wont kill him by the way. She just will scold him a while and buy a new one for him. I am sure all the parents are very treasure their children. When their children are lying to them , their heart will feel super duper sad.

Honest and loyalty are play the main role in our life. These are the jewelry that cannot measure by money. I hope all of us can to be a good child in our family, a good son or daughter to our parents, a good person in this organization.